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After being an entrepreneur for 8 years, here’s one important thing I have learned; you don’t have to be big, but you have to be meaningful. It’s interesting, because everyone who decides to become an entrepreneur will usually dream to one day become as big as possible. “Scale up, scale up, scale up”. That’s what I thought and aimed for too, but it all changed after having myself exposed to new things that inspired me more. It all first started when I got interviewed by a startup investment company a few years ago, and upon our discussion, she told me that my dream was too small. I remember leaving the meeting room feeling really strange thinking about why she said what she said. I didn’t really know the answer at that time, but the thoughts continued to linger. Today, I understand fully and am very proud about it. I am proud because when I was offered to scale up my business, I did not want to. It just did not resonate with me. The idea of having a mass shoe brand that can be available in every shopping center was definitely tempting and sounded “really successful”, but I discovered that I was and am looking for something more than just scale and financial success. Perhaps because I’m not a businessman-entrepreneur, but more of an artist-entrepreneur. I am not obsessed with catering to what the market wants. I choose to design from my heart, design what connects to me personally, sell to people who share the same taste with me, and make the whole process meaningful. I take more pride in having an “indie brand” rather than a mass brand. Sometimes, keeping your brand small(er) allows you to sustain your brand values better too, because you are not under pressure to reach crazy sales target and end up in unnecessary price war. I want my customers to buy my idea, my original design, not buy something simply because it’s cheap and it looks like that piece you just saw on the runway.
In addition to all this, I have also learned how “fast fashion” is really, really bad. Brands like Zara, H&M, Fashion Nova, they are like heaven for trendy shoppers because in these shops, you can find so many new items every week at an affordable price with designs that really make you look always up-to-date. But have you seen Zara sale outlets that sell their past-season items? Even after 80% discounts, there are still A LOT of items remaining. Imagine this pile of discounted items in one store, happening in different cities, then in different countries. That’s A LOT of clothes that eventually when not sold, become waste and end up in the landfill. That’s just one source. Excess fabrics and production rejects from the factories, they also end up in the landfill. Clothes that we no longer wear and sometimes throw away because they look ‘too used’ to donate? They end up in the landfill too. That’s three major sources of clothes that become waste. That is A LOT of waste. Just like plastic, clothes are harmful for the environment too because a lot of fabrics contains chemicals that hurt the earth.
The solution? Buy clothes that you really love, that you will wear often, that “sparks joy”, and comes from companies that care better about the true essence of “style” and also the environment. Fast-fashion brands are crazy about 'speed' so that they can keep up with trend demands, and when you talk about speed, that means one thing too: they probably employ their workers to work day and night, to work long long hours and fast fast fast. It’s torture. And that so-called affordable price? It can only happen from lowering down the production cost by 1) paying their workers less, and 2) using cheap fabrics. Are we really gonna ignore this?
Buy local, buy from small entrepreneurs who really put value into their design and production processes. Buy original designs, not a rip-off or a knock-off. Appreciate the “idea” behind the things we buy. And appreciate that ideas have a price and those prices cannot always be “cheap”. A piece of clothing is a piece of artwork too. Learn to save up to buy quality rather than quantity. Lastly, learn to know your real style and not be obsessed with only following the trend. Learn to mix and match the things you already have so you can keep rewearing your items in different, exciting ways. Buy vintage, there’s nothing gross about it.
All in all, give value to fashion. Give value to the clothes you wear, and when you wear them, wear them proud because you know they are representing something good.
To entrepreneurs: Know the kind of entrepreneur you want to be. You can seek for advice from coaches and investors but don’t let them steer you into becoming someone or something that does not feel right to you. Know where you stand and don’t let numbers blind you. Dream big, but in your own definition of “big”.
To consumers: Know that your fashion choices have a significant impact to a lot of people and also our earth too. Be mindful.
Goodbye, 2018.
Can’t believe it’s the last day of 2018 already. Wow. So what happened in 2018?
I walked a lot.
I ran a lot.
I ran with a toddler a lot.
I ran with a stroller a lot.
I ran with a stroller and a toddler a lot.
I became a sleep-deprived heavyweight multi-tasking woman who just ended up wanting to sleep during NYE 😂.
But on a more serious note...
I traveled to KL, Dubai, Barcelona, Provence, Sisteron, Torino, Amsterdam, Brussels, Lyon and many cities within Switzerland.
My business finally entered the US market by having UP available at Bando.
I launched a new SCHMILEYMO line for kids; SCHMILEYMO Kids.
Surprisingly, I was featured on both SRF and DW TV “Euromaxx” show ~ my first ever international television debut.
Showcased SCHMILEYMO in Dubai.
Did a fashion show for SCHMILEYMO in both Torino Fashion Week and Kuala Lumpur Fashion Week 2018.
Published my new children’s story book series; My Rainbow Days.
Won an award from Perempuan Bintang Awards 2018 for ‘Best Small and Medium-sized Enterprise’.
Moved in to a new beautiful apartment in Switzerland.
Decided to work on #88LOVELIFE Vol.04.
Finally did for the first time in my life: ice skating on real ice, toboganning, eat raw sushi, traveled to different cities by train alone.
Getting a life-sized statue made after me to be displayed in HVM St. Gallen museum.
In 2018, I also lost a very good friend who I hope now is resting well in heaven. Widya, you will be missed, always and forever. You will always be my inspiration, my mentor, a friend I really look up to. I love you.
In 2018, I also lost a best friend who decided to not be in touch with me anymore because she needs her own time to figure out her own life without me in it and I respect that. I will always wait for you to finally accept my calls again so we can chat 24/7 about movies, Hollywood celeb news and other nonsensical stuff like how we used to. I miss you and I love you.
2018 is so crazy and with all the happiness and sadness in it, I am grateful for everything that happened. Year after year, I am also more grateful for having S in my life. You deserve the #BestHusband award. ❤️
I walked a lot.
I ran a lot.
I ran with a toddler a lot.
I ran with a stroller a lot.
I ran with a stroller and a toddler a lot.
I became a sleep-deprived heavyweight multi-tasking woman who just ended up wanting to sleep during NYE 😂.
But on a more serious note...
I traveled to KL, Dubai, Barcelona, Provence, Sisteron, Torino, Amsterdam, Brussels, Lyon and many cities within Switzerland.
My business finally entered the US market by having UP available at Bando.
I launched a new SCHMILEYMO line for kids; SCHMILEYMO Kids.
Surprisingly, I was featured on both SRF and DW TV “Euromaxx” show ~ my first ever international television debut.
Showcased SCHMILEYMO in Dubai.
Did a fashion show for SCHMILEYMO in both Torino Fashion Week and Kuala Lumpur Fashion Week 2018.
Published my new children’s story book series; My Rainbow Days.
Won an award from Perempuan Bintang Awards 2018 for ‘Best Small and Medium-sized Enterprise’.
Moved in to a new beautiful apartment in Switzerland.
Decided to work on #88LOVELIFE Vol.04.
Finally did for the first time in my life: ice skating on real ice, toboganning, eat raw sushi, traveled to different cities by train alone.
Getting a life-sized statue made after me to be displayed in HVM St. Gallen museum.
In 2018, I also lost a very good friend who I hope now is resting well in heaven. Widya, you will be missed, always and forever. You will always be my inspiration, my mentor, a friend I really look up to. I love you.
In 2018, I also lost a best friend who decided to not be in touch with me anymore because she needs her own time to figure out her own life without me in it and I respect that. I will always wait for you to finally accept my calls again so we can chat 24/7 about movies, Hollywood celeb news and other nonsensical stuff like how we used to. I miss you and I love you.
2018 is so crazy and with all the happiness and sadness in it, I am grateful for everything that happened. Year after year, I am also more grateful for having S in my life. You deserve the #BestHusband award. ❤️
Happy 34 To Me
It's my birthday today, but somehow it just feels like any other day, nothing special. A lot has been going on lately that perhaps celebrating myself getting older was the least in my mind to think about. My gift to myself? Just dress up and feel good, that's all. I guess the older we get, the more disappointed we are towards a lot of things. As we become older, not only do we get wiser, but we also become more aware of the wrong things happening around us and they upset us so much. It's like the curse of knowing more. It's a beautiful irony. But then our wisdom is what helps us stay sane. Happy birthday, Diana.


Zara top, Topshop pants, Staud bag
A Love Letter To My Moonlight
tháng 12 14, 2018
Motherhood, My Personal Life, Thoughts
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Dear son,
I know our journey everyday to school is so tough especially for you. We take the bus, we take the train and we walk miles just to reach your school on a daily basis despite the weather that day. Regardless the heat, the rain, the freezing weather, the snow, from season to season, we do it all together with as much joy as possible. I know it is very tiring for you that you often fall asleep on the bus, and I would have to walk and carry you home even though you’re getting bigger and heavier day by day, and I would have backaches in the night. Your father has repeatedly offered me the easier way; to simply take the car and save so much hours for us. But I choose to wake ourselves up earlier and take the harder way. I do it because I love you. I do it because I want you to become a strong man. I want you to see the world, to feel alive, to be okay to sweat, to get soaked in rain, to just sit by the road eating biscuits together as you rest for a while. I do it because I want you to spend as much time on the streets and witness the many differences around us and be okay with it. I do it despite me often getting stares from people when you have your tantrums or put your feet on someone else’s lap and make them angry. I do it because all these little things, they will teach you. They will teach you in real life rather than theories found in books. You will see for yourself the cause and effect of doing things in public; what’s good, what’s bad, what’s proper, what’s rude. I do it because it is best for you, and whatever is best for you, is best for me. I just hope you will always remember our walks together and the silly songs I sing for you. You are my moonlight, the most beautiful one.
xoxo,
Mommy.
I know our journey everyday to school is so tough especially for you. We take the bus, we take the train and we walk miles just to reach your school on a daily basis despite the weather that day. Regardless the heat, the rain, the freezing weather, the snow, from season to season, we do it all together with as much joy as possible. I know it is very tiring for you that you often fall asleep on the bus, and I would have to walk and carry you home even though you’re getting bigger and heavier day by day, and I would have backaches in the night. Your father has repeatedly offered me the easier way; to simply take the car and save so much hours for us. But I choose to wake ourselves up earlier and take the harder way. I do it because I love you. I do it because I want you to become a strong man. I want you to see the world, to feel alive, to be okay to sweat, to get soaked in rain, to just sit by the road eating biscuits together as you rest for a while. I do it because I want you to spend as much time on the streets and witness the many differences around us and be okay with it. I do it despite me often getting stares from people when you have your tantrums or put your feet on someone else’s lap and make them angry. I do it because all these little things, they will teach you. They will teach you in real life rather than theories found in books. You will see for yourself the cause and effect of doing things in public; what’s good, what’s bad, what’s proper, what’s rude. I do it because it is best for you, and whatever is best for you, is best for me. I just hope you will always remember our walks together and the silly songs I sing for you. You are my moonlight, the most beautiful one.
xoxo,
Mommy.
Go Go Girl Power
What does #GirlPower mean? To me, it means using our softness as our strength to touch people’s heart and spread compassion, to use both our intuition and intelligence in making bold decisions and create impact, and to use our natural ability in multitasking to do more when the society expects less.
Fight
Like a steel,
hammered over and over again,
forged with firing heat,
all that hard work,
and hardwork,
so that we can become,
strong.
Endure, endure, endure,
for no process is ever easy
nor ever comfortable.
One day you will become,
and be,
the sword that wins
all battles.
hammered over and over again,
forged with firing heat,
all that hard work,
and hardwork,
so that we can become,
strong.
Endure, endure, endure,
for no process is ever easy
nor ever comfortable.
One day you will become,
and be,
the sword that wins
all battles.
Goal.
Sometimes
pulling yourself from the current season
to become an audience rather than the player
and watch how the game actually runs
and see how others carry on
so you can study them
and understand yourself better
so you can connect better
and perform better
and become a better team player
is required.
pulling yourself from the current season
to become an audience rather than the player
and watch how the game actually runs
and see how others carry on
so you can study them
and understand yourself better
so you can connect better
and perform better
and become a better team player
is required.
To All Fighters of The Past
I cannot heal you,
you must heal yourself.
The cure is inside you,
like a pill sitting inside your mouth
waiting for you to swallow.
Your mind needs a captain,
it is time for you to control the cruise.
You can either head for the iceberg,
or the empty island
where you can start
a new life.
you must heal yourself.
The cure is inside you,
like a pill sitting inside your mouth
waiting for you to swallow.
Your mind needs a captain,
it is time for you to control the cruise.
You can either head for the iceberg,
or the empty island
where you can start
a new life.
The Heart Speaks
I haven't been able to write anything because truthfully, mentally I am not in the right space. I hate writing when my mind is misplaced, having bits and pieces of them here and there, taken over by feelings that are just as messy. Life has been great when we talk about all the opportunities I keep on getting from Allah, but it doesn't mean that on a daily level, it's all smooth between everyone around me. I am angry, disappointed, upset, and confused at certain people. My relationship with my parent-in-laws has been becoming weirder day by day. A best friend with no explanation suddenly just decided to cut ties with me. Some family members just love taking the idea of "family" for granted. I am angry at all these. But I'm not angry at life.
I keep reminding myself that the people in my life cannot determine how my life becomes. I cannot be angry at my life. I can be angry at the people who disappoint me, but I still want to enjoy my life, and I do. I still sing when I am pushing Daria in the stroller. I still hold hands and hop like a bunny when I'm walking with Shahmeer. I still jump on S when he's on the bed because goofy-love is the best kind of love. And at the same time, I can be realistic that my heart is not in a perfect shape and I just have to continue living with it. I can try fixing it. but if it doesn't work, I can leave it broken.
I keep reminding myself that the people in my life cannot determine how my life becomes. I cannot be angry at my life. I can be angry at the people who disappoint me, but I still want to enjoy my life, and I do. I still sing when I am pushing Daria in the stroller. I still hold hands and hop like a bunny when I'm walking with Shahmeer. I still jump on S when he's on the bed because goofy-love is the best kind of love. And at the same time, I can be realistic that my heart is not in a perfect shape and I just have to continue living with it. I can try fixing it. but if it doesn't work, I can leave it broken.
Yellow Twins
tháng 8 21, 2018
Fashion Diary, My Personal Life, Thoughts
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Dedicated my time just for my friends today...catching up, listening to their stories, sharing mine. Life’s a balance between yourself, your family, your friends, the society, and God. Happiness comes from maintaining a good relationship with them all. 💖


Schmiley Mo top, Argyle & Oxford skirt, Chanel bag
You're So Pretty
Social media is becoming less real - is the reality. More show, less substance. Girls be like “you’re so pretty” to each other on Instagram but like that’s it, as if the only quality a female has is “pretty”. Compliments revolve around the face or the body, more skin deemed even better.
But why can’t us girls be an advocate of our own kind where we promote about being strong, being educated, being compassionate, being passionate, and actually care about other girls on a deeper level besides “you’re pretty”? As if girls are simply bodies without substance ~ as long as you look good in photos. What about real human connections? What about being a girl who actually does something great? And celebrate those who do?
On social media: your (pretty) face is what matters, everything else is simply a background. Can we please change that?
Being pretty is good, being complimented “you’re pretty” is good, complimenting someone “you’re pretty” is good. But let’s not stop the conversation there. I mean, all girls who wear make up, make their hair with a curler or straightener, wear extensions, able to find good lighting, will end up pretty in pics anyway. So what’s the big deal.
But why can’t us girls be an advocate of our own kind where we promote about being strong, being educated, being compassionate, being passionate, and actually care about other girls on a deeper level besides “you’re pretty”? As if girls are simply bodies without substance ~ as long as you look good in photos. What about real human connections? What about being a girl who actually does something great? And celebrate those who do?
On social media: your (pretty) face is what matters, everything else is simply a background. Can we please change that?
Being pretty is good, being complimented “you’re pretty” is good, complimenting someone “you’re pretty” is good. But let’s not stop the conversation there. I mean, all girls who wear make up, make their hair with a curler or straightener, wear extensions, able to find good lighting, will end up pretty in pics anyway. So what’s the big deal.
How To Be Confident With Your Personal Style?
tháng 7 11, 2018
Fashion Diary, My Personal Life, Thoughts
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Fashion is simply a matter of self-expression that is truly personal. What matters the most is your relationship with the people around you. If you are kind and have good thoughts about other people, you will feel light and confident and cannot be bothered by what you or other people wear. You just care about being nice to other people. So it really doesn't matter whether you like to dress up in black or white or rainbow colors. It's the heart that counts.